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Watching People Pass You By… June 25, 2006

Sherry Moorhead is our director of volunteers here at NewSpring and one of the people who ran the marathon with our crew in San Diego.

I remember approaching Sherry when I found out she was interested in running the marathon this past December and I told her she should. Her reply to me was, “I just don’t know if I can.” I promised I would do my best to help her, to encourage her, and to challenge her.

Sure enough–she showed up and began to run with us. I would finish my run and then run back to get her and run to the finish line, encouraging her all along the way. When I got to her she would always say, “You don’t have to come back for me,” but when we finished she would always say she was glad that I did.

I remember one run in particular–I think it was our 13 mile run…it was raining and MISERABLE…and I ran back to get her. About 300 yards away from the finish line she began to cry because she had no feeling in her right leg. I told her, “Girl, you have came this far and it is ok if you can’t finish.” That fired her up–she got faster and I had to do my best just to keep up with her.

Training for this marathon was more challenging for her than it was for me because of the simple fact that she has three children under the age of five years old. I can’t even begin to comprehend what it was like to train AND have a full time job AND be a wife AND be a mom…

There were a few times where she would not show up for our training runs during the week. I would either call her or walk by her office and issue a challenge or offer a word of encouragement. She had came so far…I was not going to watch her not follow through. And she was determined to do this thing!

So…the time came for the marathon–long story short–she finished–I did not. She can now say that she has done something that I have never done–completed a marathon. That’s AWESOME! I find a few leadership principals here that I would love to point out…

#1 – You Can’t Pour Your Life Into Everyone–But You Can Pour Your Life Into Someone

I was set free several years ago by the “fairness lie” that exists in ministry. You know the one–it says you have to be “fair” to people and invest the same amount of time into everyone. Where in the world did we ever get that idea? Jesus didn’t do that–He had a group of 72…out of that group He had 12…out of that group He had 3…and out of those three the Bible says that He had one that He loved.

I try my best to pour into people–I spend time with our leaders here at NewSpring…and they do the same with other people. Who are the people you are pouring into?

#2 – When People Who You Pour Into Pass You By…CELEBRATE!

I can honestly say that I am EXTREMELY PROUD of Sherry. The fact that she finished and I did not did not bother me at all. She did something that very few people have ever done…and because she finished–a part of me did as well.

You see…as a leader it should be our goal to raise up other leaders–and then as they pass us by–we CELEBRATE…we REJOICE…and we keep on training up other people. Jesus Himself said that we would do even greater things than Him…which is an amazing concept.

#3 – Look For Other Opportunities

I have already alluded to this–but I am now looking to run the Kiawah marathon in December…and I currently have about two people committed to training with me. They have never ran a marathon before…and so I am excited about the opportunity to invest in them…and hopefully they will finish BEFORE me.

As a leader we should always be looking for that next “diamond in the rough.” My former pastor, Bill Rigsby, took a chance on me. He mentored me for six years and put up with a lot of stupidity from me. However, he was patient with me–allowed me to make mistakes and celebrated my successes…and for that I am grateful! And Bill…you AND North Anderson are as much a part of what is going on here at NewSpring than anyone!!! Thanks!

Tagged: Leadership, Marathon

WOW–Two Posts In One Day… June 23, 2006

Don’t miss this Sunday!!!

I had a message prepared on the marathon BEFORE I went to run the thing in San Diego.  BUT…I felt the Lord telling me that the message was not complete and that I would understand after the race.

Uh…yeah…as always…HE WAS RIGHT!!!

I almost didn’t talk about it.  I met with the creative team and tried to move this message for Sunday in a different direction.  BUT that is the beauty of surrounding yourself with people who tell you what you NEED to hear and not what you WANT to hear.

So…I spent some time with God…asking Him to allow me to reflect on the marathon…and He showed me several things that we can all apply to our lives.

So–show up Sunday…things will be different…and you will notice some “unusual” things taking place…even in the parking lot!

See you then–I can’t wait!

Tagged: Marathon

So Here’s The Marathon Story June 6, 2006

Before I begin…let me say thanks to those who have e-mailed encouragement to me…it means a lot! To be honest–you can pray for me to get over this quickly…it is disappointing to train as hard as I did, be less than four miles away and not be able to finish. (Although the ambulance ride was cool!)

The day started out awesome…the crew and I had dominated some pasta the night before and got up early the next morning. The hotel shuttle took us to the starting line and we stretched, prayed, and then prepared to begin the race. (I had to tee-tee so bad…so I went…but five minutes later I had to go again and the lines were SOOOO long…more on this later!)

We finally began the race and I felt AWESOME! I was confident, knew I had trained well…and there were tons of people around me. I was hurting from needing to use the restroom and was looking for a porta-potty when…all of a sudden…I saw a bunch of guys heading for the bushes…I thought, “I am a man”…and one of the unique privileges we have is using the restroom outside! Oh yes–I did…and I felt much better!

Mile seven through ten was uphill and it hurt–but when I came over the hill I felt great…I made it to mile 13.1 in about 2:12…I was making great time! (By the way–if you ever do a marathon–13.1 is NOT halfway! Trust me!)

I was having fun, talking with strangers and seeing strange people run by me. (Seriously–there was a dude who ran by me wearing nothing but a speedo and a sombrero…and that’s all I’ve got to say about that.)

But at mile 18 something hit me–HARD. I had to slow down and walk. “No problem,” I thought, “I will catch my breath and keep going.” I finally was able to run again…but only for about a hundred yards or so…so the next couple of miles I just would run about a hundred yards and then walk about a hundred.

At mile 20 I stopped sweating…which I knew could be bad…but I dismissed it by telling myself that I wasn’t pushing myself as hard AND that it was really cool outside.

I kept doing the run/walk thing until about mile 22…and then I just had to walk. I told myself, “Dude, just finish!” I went about another half a mile and said, “I think I need to sit down here…maybe I will wait on Jake and Sherry.”

I sat down on a guard rail underneath a bridge and everything went blurry. There was a dude working with the race walking towards me and I raised my hand to get his attention…I could not talk. He asked me did I need to go to the medical tent and I shook my head yes…then he asked me could I walk–I tried to stand up but my legs were completely useless. Then he looked at me and said, “Oh my gosh…are you going to pass out?” I said yes and then everything went black.

I woke up with people around me and they were putting salt in my mouth. Then they helped me to the medical tent and made me lay down. I started feeling better and they asked me to stand…and that is when the cramps hit and I lost my manhood! I screamed–it hurt…at one point my foot, my calve, and my quad were cramping at the same time. When this happened the doctor said, “You are going to the hospital.”

So the ambulance driver was new and didn’t know where he was going…and he and the dude with me sort of fought all the way–which was funny. They got me to the hospital and stripped me of my clothes…and I was freezing! They put these warm blankets over me–which was awesome for about five minutes–and then I was cold again!

I got the royal treatment–CAT scan (for precautions in case I hit my head when I passed out), a chest x-ray, and EKG…and a lot of IV fluids. They finally called Lucretia–which is a story in and of itself. For some reason I could not get anyone to call her. When they finally did she was walking on the race course back to meet me…and our friends Joe and Jenn brought her to the hospital.

They released me with instructions to drink a lot of fluids. What was funny about this was that I had NO CLOTHES…and so the hospital gave me a gown and a pair of PJ pants that looked like something that Bozo the clown would wear. I didn’t care–I put them on and walked out into the waiting room–which caused everyone to literally stop what they were doing and look at me, I announced to the entire waiting room that I was making a fashion statement and that they could not have my clothes–which caused everyone to laugh.

I went back to the motel and relaxed for a while…and then the crew went to Ruth’s Cris steakhouse. It was awesome! I slept well and then yesterday spent all day on a plane.

As I said…it was an incredible experience. I KNOW God has taught me a lot already and will continue to teach me more. We had actually planned on me doing an entire message on this experience on June 25th…and we are still going to–but it is going to change a little…and for the better I think.

I can honestly say this–I thought about NewSpring the entire time I was running! I love this church, I love being pastor here…there is NOTHING I want to do with my life more than what I am doing right now! Thank You Jesus for blessing me so much!!!

Tagged: Marathon

Dealing With Disappointment June 4, 2006

I am getting ready for bed now…it’s been a long and CrAzY day!  Long story short–everyone finished the marathon…except for me.  I don’t have time to go into the story right now…I will probably post about it later on this week…I can tell you that it does included dehydration, a ride to the hospital in an ambulance, a CAT scan, a chest x-ray…and leaving the hospital in nothing but a gown and some pajama bottoms.

YES…I am FINE!  Once they got some fluids in me I was great.  First Wednesday is this Wednesday and I will be speaking…and I will be back this Sunday.  I know how the rumor mill starts & so I wanted to let everyone know that I am alive and that I am not hanging on for dear life in a hospital in San Diego.

Two thoughts though:

#1 – I guess if I am going to be involved in something…it can’t be normal!

#2 – I am disappointed…but I have learned to deal with it.  I wrote in my journal this morning that God is awesome, soveriegn, and good…and I guess He maybe put me in a place to see if I believed what I had said…which is fine…it IS HIS UNIVERSE!

PS–I am not done…there will be another marathon in the future…I can’t go out like that!

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Race Results June 3, 2006

For those who want to view the race results…you can go here. Hopefully I will finish! :-)

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San Diego–Day One, Saturday June 3, 2006

I HATE flying!  I have severe A-D-D and all I can do on that stupid plane is sit still!  And let me just say this–tall people get no respect in this world–NONE at all!  The seats on airplanes were basically designed for people who are about five feet tall–so people like me and Jake are simply out of luck!

But–we made it!  We finally sat down for supper last night at 11:00 eastern time…and…I DID NOT HAVE DESERT!  This is a miracle in and of itself.  However, I knew if I did have desert then I would have to wait longer to get in bed and I was tired!  (I thought Lucretia was going to go to sleep walking down the street to the hotel.)

Let me say this–San Diego is BEAUTIFUL!  WOW–very low humidity, which is a plus because I sweat like crazy!  Lucretia and I got up this morning at 6:00 Pacific time and she went to the gym…and I…well they have this breakfast buffet thing and I did as much damage to it as I could–got to load up on carbs!

The training schedule told me to take yesterday off from working out…and today as well…which is driving me COMPLETELY INSANE!  I can’t remember the last time I took two days off in a row–oh yeah, wait…I can remember–it was when I was in the HOSPITAL!

We are about to go to the fitness expo and register…that should be fun…and then we have no plans for the rest of the day except to relax and get mentally prepared for 26.2 miles.

I will admit–I am PUMPED about running the marathon…but for the NewSpring peeps that are reading right now…I am MORE excited about our First Wednesday service coming up this Wednesday night at 6:30.  We had an AWESOME time at the last one…and this one is, once again, going to be very unique…I hope you have plans to be there.

One more thing…if you could do that prayer thing for me I would appreciate it…I have had a head cold now for over a week…and this cough is driving me crazy…it does not allow me to sleep very well and I would love to get some good sleep tonight.

More updates to come later.

Tagged: Marathon

Leavin’ On A Jet Plane June 2, 2006

OK…so I am about to run around like a chicken with my head cut off (sorry PETA people) trying to get ready for this trip to San Diego to run 26.2 miles.

(WOW–I need my head examined…I am paying money to fly across the country to run that far…)

Nonetheless–I am so excited. It seems like we have been training for this thing forever. In my best calculations we have ran right at 487 miles since January preparing for this thing. I have trained the best I know how…and now it’s time to get it started. (I know–that song is in your head now–sorry!)
I will be honest–yesterday was my last run before the race. (I was supposed to only run two–but I ran three…I am a freak!) I am not doing any type of workout today OR tomorrow…I am going to go crazy!!! BUT…that is what the training schedule calls for…and the goal is to be ready for the race.

Pray for us!!! :-) And…if you want to see how we are doing or how we finished (or IF I finish) you can check out this site and should be able to find something out. The run will begin at 9:00 Eastern time, yes–that is 6:00 AM out there–but that is the time our crew normally trains anyway–so we are used to it.

Once again–Clayton will be here Sunday for a follow up from his message two weeks ago–it will rock!

AND–more on this later–but meeting with Tony and the crew from Granger yesterday was awesome. It is so cool to be able to meet with other leaders and find out what is and is not working. It was one of those meetings where we all spent four hours together and it felt like 15 minutes! Thanks for coming down guys–we will be heading that way soon!

By the way…Tony mentioned something to me in an e-mail about those of you who are reading my blog through bloglines or some other deal that you may need to resubscribe because of my recent switch to a different server. I don’t know what this means…I am sure it makes sense to some people…I just wanted to mention it.

Tagged: Marathon, Networking