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A Repost–15 Things Chris Was Wondering April 12, 2010

Chris Elrod is a friend of mine and had this post on his blog the other week about 15 random things he was wondering about…I loved it and asked for permission to repost it on my blog…and he agreed (thanks Chris.)  Some GREAT thoughts here…

There is some stuff I just cannot comprehend.  Try as I may to get it…it doesn’t make any logical or Scriptural sense. Here is a partial of things I do not understand.

  1. Folks that show up to church only a few times a year but expect the pastor to drop everything to provide them with his undivided attention.
  2. People that put nothing in the offering plate but still have the stones to expect that their opinions on the church should count.
  3. Parents who ground their children from church or the youth group…the very things that could help them with their behavior, future and afterlife.
  4. People that expect the pastor to tolerate their political views…but leave the church because of his.
  5. The occasional volunteer that expects the church to throw a parade in their honor just because they finally did what the Bible commanded.
  6. People that have basked in the grace of God…but fail to give grace to anyone else.
  7. Pastors that leave one church for another…for better pay.
  8. The need for church growth plans, programs, books, conference, seminars and resource kits…when we already have the Bible
  9. Women that tolerate their husbands having multiple affairs…”for the sake of the kids”.
  10. Pastors that would rather be political pundits or civil rights leaders…instead of just preaching the life-saving message of the Word of God.
  11. People that have one spiritual standard for their pastor…and another for themselves.
  12. Folks that think the word ‘disciple’ is a noun…and not a verb.
  13. People that make comments about needing to go “deeper” in God’s Word…as if there is a Scripture in the Bible that isn’t deep.
  14. Pastors that think accountability means never asking them the tough questions or taking the hard line when it comes to their failure to follow Scripture.
  15. Men that think being the head of the household has something to do with the amount of money they are bringing in or the title they acquire at work.

10 Most Popular Blog Posts of 2009 December 30, 2009

Here are the most viewed posts on this site this year…

#10 – PREACH!

#9 – I’m Dreaming of a Church

#8 – We Will Never

#7 – Pray For Your Pastor

#6 – Seven Reasons Your Church Plant Might Fail

#5 – Seven Leadership Questions Teams Should Be Asking

#4 – Why I Am Frustrated

#3 – Seven Reasons Why Marriages Fail

#2 – 15 Signs That A Church Is In Trouble

#1 – “This Sh_t Is Awesome!”

Tagged: Blog Lists

Some Random Stuff… October 23, 2009

It’s Friday…here are a few more posts that have attracted a lot of attention over the past several years!

#1 – This post on masturbation! (What was CRAZY was the people who emailed in afterward trying to justify it…SERIOUSLY.  There are some things I think I might stay silent about…I’m just sayin’!)

#2 – THE Question that CHANGED MY LIFE! (It will change yours too!!!)

#3 – Top Ten Mistakes Church Planters/Pastors Make!!!

#4 – AWESOME QUOTES!!! These SERIOUSLY set me on fire!!!

#5 – Top Five Complaints I Hear From Church Planters and Pastors…

#6  – Why Do People Criticize? If you are a leader…it isn’t “if” you get criticized…but “when,” so we need to understand “why!!!”

#7 – “I Don’t See How Someone Can Worship God With A Booming Sound System.” I heard this on the radio one day…and…well…it fired me up!

#8 – Five Reasons For Pastors NOT To Quit!!!

Staffing, Ministry and Vision! October 22, 2009

Here we go!

#1 – Should I Go Into Ministry? Great question…if you are even considering it…read this!

#2 – Eight Things I Think Every Worship Leader Should Know!

(Our receptionish actually got a phone call from a lady somewhere in the midwest who yelled at her for the above post!!!)

#3 – Seven Things Worship Leaders Wished Their Senior Pastors Knew! (I had my favorite worship leader, Lee McDee, write a response to my post above…EXCELLENT STUFF!!!!)

#4 – What Every Youth Pastor Wishes Their Senior Pastor Knew – seriously…pastors…read!

#5 – Superficial Sunday in the South!

#6 – Four Types of Staff Members…Which Type Are You?

#7 – Five Things You Should NEVER Hear From A Staff Member! EVER!

#8 – Seven Reasons Jesus Could Not Have Been A Pastor In Many Modern Day Churches!

Relationships October 21, 2009

I love to teach about relationships…here are some older posts I have done on this subject…

#1 – “Nice” Christan Boys And Girls Make Me Sick – it’s true!!!

#2 – Six Signs The Dating Relationship Is In Trouble!

#3 – Five Things A Single Dude Should Know! I love single dudes…praying that we continue to seemore godly men step up!!!

#4 – Seven Reasons Why Marriages Get Into Trouble! A good thing for couples to review together!!!

#5 - A TRUE LOVE STORY – this one WILL make you cry…amazing…a couple who said “I do” and meant it!!!

Lessons From My Journey October 20, 2009

One of the things that I try to do a lot is share from my pain and my failures.  I’ve noticed in church world that people relate a lot better to a leader when they realize that he isn’t necessarily above them…but rather one of them and is struggling with them.

So…here are some things that I’ve dealt with…praying they may minister/challenge/bless you.

#1 – Top Seven STUPID Financial Mistakes I’ve Made Part One – I had a degree in financial stupidity for over a decade!!!  Seriously…and in this post I shared the PAINFUL lessons I learned…and how to come out of a financial hole!!!  (BTW…it takes WORK!!!!)

#2 – And here is part two to the STUPIDITY that I repented of!

#3 – I’ve had a life long battle with weight issues!!!  There was a time when I weighed over 300 pounds and wore a size 50 in the pants!!!  (I literally still weight every single day…yes, I have issues!)  So…in this series I shared my struggles…

#4 –   “When I Saw The Blood I Freaked Out!” NO one likes to see the blood of their own child…and the first time I saw Charisse injured God used it to ROCK my world!!!

#5 – Eyes LOCKED!!! Once again…God used my little girl to ABSOLUTELY drill something into my head!!!

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Pastors, Leadership…and Stuff That Makes People Blush October 19, 2009

One of the things I’ve always tried to do is say exactly what I mean.  I believe life is too short and hell is too hot for people to play around with words!  So…saying that…here are a few posts that I’ve done for pastors and leaders…if you haven’t read them yet…enjoy…

#1 – The Pastors Pain – written at a time when I was REALLY struggling!

#2 – Keep Your Penis In Your Pants – written after I had heard about another pastor having an affair…I was MAD!!!  And believe it or not…some people got mad!  :-)

#3 – The Pastor’s Wife – often THE MOST neglected person in a pastors church!!!

#4 – Pastors Are People Too! – I completely ripped this article off from Clayton…WOW!

#5 – Playing for an audience of one!!! (People said this one made them cry!  Which is funny b/c…I cried when I wrote it!)

#6- What They REALLY Mean – if you are a church leader…you will LOVE THIS!!!  :-)  It is one of the most fun thing’s I’ve ever written!!!