Archive for December, 2007
Christmas, 1981 December 20, 2007
Many of you may not remember Christmas in 1981, heck, maybe you weren’t even born then. However, I remember it like it was yesterday – it was the last Christmas that I spent with my mother.
That Christmas is one of the most special in my life. I distinctly remember that I RACKED UP, “Santa” brought me a 4-10 shotgun (we ARE in the South), a Polaroid camera and…AN ATARI. (My cousin and I played missile command and combat for hours.)
And for some reason that year my mom and dad asked everyone to come to our house to celebrate Christmas…and they did! I honestly can’t ever remember a time when all of the aunts, uncles, cousins, in-laws and out-laws were all in the same place at the same time.
Several things pop into my mind about the actual day itself. First of all—EVERYONE in my family smoked and I think I may have inhaled at least two packs that day due to second hand smoke alone. (I still cough just thinking about it!)
Second of all—THE FOOD! My mother made two turkeys for that day along with ALL of the sides. My dad wanted her to do all of the cooking—partly because she was the best cook on the planet and partly because he just didn’t trust my other aunts. (There was one aunt who literally picked her nose when she cooked—which made it especially bad when she brought corn—just being honest.)
Third—the FUN! I can still remember my aunt Ruth and uncle Charles getting into a tickle fight and my mother laughing at the whole thing. I jumped in and got hurt in the process…and she came and pulled me out, telling me that it would be ok.
That day seemed to go on forever—no one seemed to want to leave. I had a blast & remember asking could we do that same thing the next year. I remember the tired look in my mothers eyes when she said, “Maybe!”
I had no idea that night when I went to bed that my mother had just spent her last Christmas with me. I imagined there would be more, lots more—with food and gifts and her laughter. But in July of that next year she was diagnosed with cancer…and she went on to be with Jesus in November at the age of 49.
The next Christmas was silent for me—I did receive gifts and we had a tree…but the joy was gone. I distinctly remember thinking, “If I had only known last Christmas was going to be her last I would have spent WAY more time with her.” I had made the mistake of thinking, “Everyone will be here next year.” But they weren’t…which leads me to…
Do NOT waste this Christmas. Sure, you are going to be around relatives that you love AND ones that absolutely get on your last nerves—but the sobering reality is this—what if it is the last Christmas you are able to spend with them? Personally, I want to live a life of no regrets—and Christmas is the best time of the year to make things right with others.
This Christmas morning Lucretia and I will go wake Charisse up and bring her downstairs, read the Christmas story together as a family, open gifts and enjoy spending time with one another. I’m not quite sure…but I’ll bet my mom would have been proud of her. :-) I want every Christmas to be unforgettable for my family.
Oh…as far as my mom goes…I missed her that next year, as I do every year…but don’t feel sad for her. While Christmas Day of 1982 was sad for me it was joyous for her. You see, she REALLY was able to celebrate Christmas with the One who Christmas is all about. She sang, she celebrated, she danced and she rejoiced that cancer no longer had ANY effect on her body. She is enjoying Christmas now more than ever…and I will bet that they have asked her to cook for everyone up there!!!
Embrace relationships this Christmas. Hug a little tighter, laugh so hard that you get sick, make things right that have been wrong for awhile and enjoy the time that God gives you to spend with family and friends…create memories, make Jesus a birthday cake, drink in every moment and don’t take this time for granted—it truly is a gift from God.
Christmas Services December 19, 2007
I can’t describe the buzz around this place in regards to our Christmas services this Sunday and Monday. The staff and volunteers have put in countless hours of work and preparation for one purpose–that people might know Jesus.
I was informed by Tony that we have given away every single ticket for our Sunday services…BUT that our Monday services have several hundred still available in each–you can STILL go on-line here and get them if you wish.
If you are planning on being here let me ask a few things of you…
#1 – Get Here Early! We are beginning the service in a “unique” way and trust me, you do NOT want to miss out. (It may be beneficial to plan a few extra minutes for children’s check in being that we are going to have so many people.)
#2 – Pray for people to come to Christ. The Gospel is going to be presented in an “out of this world” manner and we are passionately praying that people meet Jesus.
#3 – Don’t expect me to wear a Christmas sweater! :-)
I can’t wait–see you on either Sunday or Monday!
Going To Unsafe Places… December 19, 2007
There is a desire in the church that has absolutely crippled the effectiveness that God showed us in possible in the book of Acts. It’s a desire that, on the surface, can seem both “spiritual” and correct; however, this desire has done nothing more than render what should be the most powerful group of people in the world impotent.
It’s the desire to play it safe.
Safety is becoming more and more of an issue in our society. Children’s toys come with warning labels. We pay attention to safety standards on automobiles. Heck, when I was growing up NO ONE wore their seatbelts…now it is almost considered “immoral” if you don’t.
AND…there is NOTHING wrong with a desire for personal safety. It does make me feel better that my car has an airbag and Charisse’s crib hasn’t been covered in lead based paint.
However, that desire for safety somehow crept into the church and turned what God meant to be an unstoppable force that was designed to change the world into a group of people who are passionate about business meetings, legislating morality and getting out of the worship service on time.
This REALLY hit me right between the eyes on my trip to LA this week. On Sunday night Jason and I decided to cruise to downtown LA and see Erwin McManus teach at the venue that meets in a bar.
It was about a 45 minute trip from the hotel we were staying in and the drive, for the first 35 minutes, was pretty cool. (I have NO RIGHT to ever complain about traffic on Clemson Boulevard again!)
However, everything changed when we got off the exit number the GPS lady instructed us to take. No longer were we “taking in the LA sunset,” but rather we were making sure the doors were locked. To my right were a couple of prostitutes standing on the street corner. About a block past them were two homeless men setting up a tent. Right after that I saw a man going through the trash cans, searching for something to eat.
I felt unsafe—very unsafe…and vulnerable. I have heard stories about car jackings and random shootings…but all of a sudden I was in an environment where THAT could have been a reality. I almost said to Jason, “Maybe we should NOT go here.”
Then God hit me right between the eyes…the Holy Spirit spoke to my heart in one of the most real ways I’ve ever experienced. It was undeniable AND convicting – “Hey Perry, THIS is exactly where I want MY church—in unsafe places, around unsafe people. I didn’t come to call the righteous to repentance…but the sick.”
It was in that moment that I realized that if I want to be a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ then I must abandon my desire for safety. I must adopt what Paul said in Acts 20:24, that I consider my life worth nothing to me. And in pursuing this I must be willing to go and do WHATEVER He asks of me—no matter how it makes me feel.
NewSpring – we have NOT been called to play it safe. God is NOT glorified when our biggest accomplishments are a 3% increase in the yearly budget, some new choir robes and repainting the restrooms. He is glorified when a church is willing to say, “God, whatever You want – whenever You want it – just let us know and we will go, no matter how crazy or unsafe the idea may seem—we’re in!”
I have no idea what God is preparing us for—but 2008 is going to be off the chain. I really feel as if we are going to be asked by Him to take some risks, to go to some unsafe places and do ministry on a level in which we’ve never seen. I am both nervous and excited about it and can’t wait to see the next step in the way He is leading.
Jason and I went to Erwin’s church and had an outstanding time. We saw people in there who would NEVER darken the doors of a “normal” church – but in that environment, the one where I felt unsafe—they felt safe. They heard the Scriptures taught, they heard the message of Jesus Christ. And they were introduced to the concept of community.
These were people who may not have been accepted in a church that simply desired to play it safe…but because there was one that wasn’t concerned about “what they looked like,” people are meeting Christ!
This is what God has called the church to be – unsafe—willing—passionate—and READY! What is Your call Lord? What is Your direction? We will go! NewSpring is becoming more and more convinced that You are ABLE to do the book of Acts all over again and we are ready—lead us to unsafe places!”
LA, Rick Warren & Missing My Girls December 18, 2007
Today the Lord stretched me like never before. Jason Moorhead and I flew to Los Angeles on Sunday in order to be in a planning meeting with Rick Warren and several other leaders. I honestly felt like the mule that got invited to the Kentucky Derby…it was an honor to just be in the room and I learned a ton.
There is really no way to sum up the entire day–but here are some things things I walked away with…
#1 – A vision has to be primarily about passion and not programming. I feel like a problem with many churches is that they have created such a programming mentality that there isn’t any room for a move of God anymore. This is a danger that must be constantly guarded against.
#2 – People get passionate about something that changes their life. In order for people to become passionate about church–life change MUST be taking place there.
#3 – It is awesome to be a part of something that is so big that it will fail unless God shows up. I want this for our church continually. We can never get comfortable, safe or civilized. We didn’t get to where we are by playing it safe–risks MUST be continually taken.
#4 – The church was AND IS God’s idea for reaching the world.
#5 – We MUST believe that God wants to do a great thing in our church! We can’t think that we’ve arrived OR that our best days are behind us–God wants to do even greater things than these.
#6 – It does not take “professionals” to do ministry; in fact, every revival/reformation that has ever happened took place FIRST among the peasants and “common folk” and NOT the religious elite!
#7 – Big vision must always be accompanied by small strategy–step by step is how a long journey happens.
#8 – The church has been called to shake the world.
#9 – The church doesn’t need to move ahead–we need to go back 2000 years to the first 300 years of our existence and focus on being a movement and NOT a monument!
#10 – Rick said that Billy Graham once told him in regards to responding to critics, “Rick, when you wrestle with a pig both of you get dirty but only one of you will enjoy it!”
I had an absolute blast out here just being stretched and asking TONS of questions. I wish I could blog more…but I am very tired. LA is nice…but it isn’t Anderson. I miss home…AND I miss my girls like CRAZY. Pray for me as I will be flying home today!
My Bible Journey December 17, 2007
Here are a few more thoughts on my journey through Scripture…
- Acts 1:24 – No matter how hard I try…I can NEVER fool God.
- Acts 2:4 – God used common, ordinary men to communicate the Gospel in a way that everyone could understand…and He’s still doing the same today.
- Acts 2:41 – One of my prayers is that God will one day allow me to be a part of a day like this. (Call me crazy–but did someone actually count the number of people?)
- Acts 2:47 – DAILY!
- Acts 4:1-2 – These people have always been around!
- Acts 4:12 – THIS is why evangelism is SO MUCH MORE than a good idea!!! Jesus is NECESSARY!
- Acts 4:13 – Unschooled, ordinary men…I am so glad He still uses the “non-experts!”
- Acts 4:34-37 – Radical, generous giving was/is a sign of someone who is sincerely following Jesus.
- Acts 5:33-39 – YEP!
- Acts 8:8 – I am praying this for Anderson & Greenville!
- Acts 9:31 – YEP!
- Acts 13:43-44 – If God did it then–He can do it today! Why do we limit Him with our small dreams?
- Acts 15:5 – People have always been around who felt like Jesus plus BLANK equals salvation…and they have always been wrong!
- Acts 16:6-10 – I have always found great comfort in this story–God will NOT LET ME MISS HIM & WHERE HE IS LEADING ME!
- Acts 17:6 – THIS is the reputation the church needs to have–changing the world!
- Acts 17:25 – God IS NOT “somewhere out there,” He is right HERE, right NOW.
- Acts 19:10 – If Paul could reach this many people–then the Upstate should be NO PROBLEM for an Almighty God!!!
- Acts 20:24 – WOW, this is one of THE most incredible statements made in Scripture.
The other things I have REALLY focused on in the book of Acts is–
- The name of Jesus was constantly lifted up…He was the center.
- Scripture was CENTRAL to their message.
- They were desperate for the Holy Spirit’s leadership!
The three things above should always be true of ANY church–just my opinion!!!
Sunday Night Reflections December 17, 2007
A little late for a Sunday night post–but here goes…
- God is doing something unique at our church right now. Honestly, I am feeling like a kid on the night before Christmas in regards to our Christmas services and 2008! I’ve never been as excited about our future as I am right now.
- There are still some seats left for the 6:45 service on Sunday and the 2:00 and 4:00 services on Monday. I know I’ve said it before, and I will say it again…this is an outstanding opportunity to invite your family and friends who do not ordinarily go to church…I promise they will hear the Gospel in a unique way!
- By the way–BE EARLY NEXT SUNDAY/MONDAY!!! Because…we are expecting a record number of people AND, trust me, you do NOT want to miss the beginning of this service!!!
- I heard the phrase today, “If there is no fear in your life then you are not attempting anything great.” WOW! I never want to get to the place where all I desire is comfort and safety–that being said…I am REALLY pumped about our Greenville campus!
- It’s cold–NOW it’s beginning to feel a lot like Christmas. Seriously, it was getting tough to get in the Christmas spirit with it being 70 degrees outside.
- Lucretia has been pretty sick this past week with a head cold–please keep her in your prayers. I hate it when she is sick!
- Due to the fact that she has been sick–I agreed to give Charisse her bath on Friday night. (‘Cretia and I usually tag team this deal.) When it was all said and done I think she almost got as wet as I did!
- Yesterday I played in the floor with Charisse for about an hour…and then last night ‘Cretia and I cuddled on the couch and watched a movie…I am SO blessed to have those ladies in my life.
- God is teaching me so much about His love through allowing me to be a dad. I am BLOWN AWAY by the fact that He loves me–even when I mess up. (I had this thought yesterday after Charisse had blessed me with some projectile vomit & I didn’t stop loving her because of it!) Yep, God loves us–even in our messiness!
- It isn’t even 2008 yet and I am already ready for this flippin’ presidential race to be OVER!
- Please don’t get mad at me–but STOP sending me e-mails that tell me you have heard from a “very reliable source” that Starbucks is coming to Anderson. I have been hearing this as well–FOR THREE YEARS. I will believe it when I actually walk out of that establishment with my non-fat iced vanilla latte!
- On Wednesday I did an interval workout on my treadmill at home that I haven’t done in several months–and my legs have hated me ever since!
- This past Tuesday was AMAZING. I had the privilege to participate in one of our Gametime initiatives. We went to a local elementary school (that has a 91% poverty rating) and gave away over 300 pairs of shoes and jackets! Thanks to all who are participating in Gametime…it definitely made a difference in hundreds of kids lives this past week. Be sure to check out the video in our services on the 30th of this month.
That’s about it–good night!
My Bible Journey December 14, 2007
Here are some thoughts from the Gospel of John…
- John 1:12 – Salvation isn’t as difficult as some people make it out to be!
- John 1:14 – It BLOWS me away that Jesus left heaven to come to earth!
- John 2:1-11 – Jesus probably would have gotten kicked out of the Baptist Church for this one! :-)
- John 3:16 – This is something I think all Christians CAN agree on!
- John 3:17 – This is something I think all Christians SHOULD agree on!
- John 3:30 – YES!
- John 4:39-42 – One person CAN make a difference!
- John 5:16 – Here we see Jesus, once again, healing on the Sabbath, purposefully offending the religious. I love this about Him…He had no box!!!
- John 5:24 – Once again, salvation made simple.
- John 6:38 – This is my prayer–easy to pray, hard to follow!
- John 9:14 – There He goes again!!!
- John 9:25 – One of the best testimonies ever given in regards to Jesus.
- John 10:27-30 – My salvation is securely in the hands of God!
- John 10:42 – I prayed this for NewSpring.
- John 12:9-11 – This passage has always amazed me…does anyone actually think that Lazarus was scared? Seriously–he had been down that road before!
- John 13:34-35 – This is how we are going to be identified as His followers.
- John 14:15 – BAM! Talk is cheap!
- John 15:5 – TRUE!!!
- John 18:4-6 – I would have loved to have seen this!
- John 19:11 – God is Sovereign–EVEN over the political system.
- John 19:38-40 – There comes a time when we must step out of the shadows and identify ourselves with Christ.
- John 21:25 – We have NO idea as to how amazing Jesus really is!!!
